***When to Have Sex in a New Relationship

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Settled Partnership is the stage where the pleasures of lasting love are realized. At this point, successful couples know they're loved as they really are. They have become experts in living life together. When all goes well, the couple have a feeling of security, intimacy and partnership that's truly satisfying and rewarding. When problems arise, they have the wisdom and experience to keep their commitment alive through cooperation and mutual understanding.

Painful lovemaking: Many women show reluctance to sex because of their previous painful experience due to lack of lubrication, pelvic or vaginal infections, and uncomfortable sex positions.

Evaluate to what level you are inhibited sexually. If you aren’t, then praise God. If you are to any degree, know God wants you to grow less inhibited. But don’t be hard on yourself. If you’re inhibited it’s probably because of a less than affirmative attitude about sex in your upbringing and/or part of your personality. If you were sexually active before marriage it could be some guilt-issues over that. Explore the roots of your inhibition and ask God to slowly heal you to be free to enjoy sex with increasingly more creativity and passion.

Even though a lackluster sex life can happen with a long term relationship, both partners are missing out on a core element of a relationship. Typically, in a long term relationship the relationship becomes more important than anything. Neither of you want to lose that and you shouldn't have to.

Resentment is totally created by the person carrying it. It takes loads of energy to carry around resentment. Refocus that energy in a focus, productive way and just let go of this crippling emotion.

"I love you," he would always tell me. He would say that as many times I needed his assurances. His eyes confirmed what he said. His attitude and behaviour towards me were nice and caring. Increasingly I found him irresistible and finally discovered he had deep vacuum to fill in my life. I stored his beautiful words only to relish them when I was on my own, all alone. I kept his presence around me. His words, cards, letters, all adore my dreams"